I Ruined Someone’s marriage using Ice blocks and Tomtom

At age 17, I entered into a relationship with a classmate around my age which lasted for about`6 years. After my relationship ended, I went into a kind of wild phase, where I did a lot of playing around and having fun.

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I went out with multiple people and just did things I wanted to do. My previous 6 year old relationship had really messed me up.

However, I took some things from the first relationship into my next relationships, particularly my sexual prowess. My first boyfriend was very adventurous and taught me a lot of things. One of the things I learnt to do, has to do with Tomtom and ice blocks. It is a type of oral sex where instead of just using your mouth on his private parts, you also use the popular Tomtom toffee and ice blocks. The Tomtom gives a nice feel and the ice blocks keep it cold and chilled.

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 There hasn’t been a single man I’ve done this with who didn’t love it. One of these men was a married man who I worked in the same company with. I didn’t know he was married at the time. He was part of the team that interviewed me when I first applied to join the company and we took an instant likeness to each other when I begun working there. We started by just going to lunch during work and chatting. Later on, we started talking more often and got much close and even became intimate. Like I stated earlier, he absolutely loved my Tomtom and ice blocks technique and would request for it often.

When I became aware of his marital status, I confronted him about it and told him it was over between us. I wasn’t angry, truth be told, I wasn’t looking for anything serious myself. However, married men are a no no for me and bring so many complications and drama that I would rather not deal with. When I broke the news to him, he was distraught and begged and explained himself. He said he really liked me and had wanted to be upfront with me in the beginning but feared that I would refuse his advances if I knew he was married. I told him I understood him, but my answer remained the same nonetheless.

He told some of our coworkers about our relationship and asked them to come beg me on his behalf, none of which changed my mind. And then the real shocker; he told his wife about me and told her that he wanted a divorce. I know this because she actually sought me out, got to know who I was thanks to our colleague and then confronted me to leave her husband alone. I told her it was over between us and apologized for the whole affair, but she didn’t believe me. She was a really good looking woman with all the nice assets and figure that African men love. I don’t know much about her or what she does, but she was well spoken and sounded smart. It just seemed so crazy to me that this man was willing to lose her over someone he had only known for a few months.

I told the husband of our confrontation and told him to stop his weird obsession before he got me into more trouble. I eventually had to resign from the company, as the whole thing became a controversy that almost everyone knew about. Eventually, when he realized that I wasn’t going to change my mind, he came up with a compromise and made me an offer; If I wanted, he wouldn’t divorce his wife and I can also date whoever I wanted. He just wanted us to keep being intimate. Specifically, he wanted me to keep giving him oral sex. He said he would even give me a regular allowance if I wanted.

Suddenly, his actions made sense to me. It wasn’t like I was the most beautiful lady he had ever met or that I treated him in a special way that he couldn’t get from anywhere else…it was just that one thing that made him so obsessed. I can’t imagine what his wife must be going through right now and I feel like I’m to blame for their messed up marriage. This is my cautionary advise to married women: Experiment with your husband and find out what he likes, and then try to satisfy him in that manner. Some of them cheat because they have weird sexual preferences and fetishes that they can’t share with you.

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